October 15th Wave of Light

“There is, I am convinced, no picture that conveys in all its dreadfulness, a vision of sorrow, despairing, remediless, supreme. If I could paint such a picture, the canvas would show only a woman looking down at her empty arms.”

― Charlotte Brontë


October 15th is National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Memorial Day. At 7:00 tomorrow evening, I will partake in the “Wave of Light” for all children gone too soon. For at least an hour, my home will be aglow with candlelight to honor my own six miscarried babies and the dearly missed children of friends and family members. In annual memory of those children we never had the chance to hold and in honor of their short lives, here are the names The Husband and I gave to our six miscarried children:

Agnes Elizabeth (April, 2004)

Julian Olivia (June, 2005)

Max Kolbe (April, 2006)

Catherine Teresa (December, 2006)

John Victor (January, 2013)

Francis Cuthbert (March, 2014)

If you’d like to learn more about National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Memorial Day, here are some well-informed websites that will help you to spread awareness for SIDS and child loss, find an event in your area to participate in, and further make a difference in the lives of deceased babies and their families:

Please join me in the “Wave of Light” by lighting your own candle on October 15th at 7:00 PM (in your time zone) to honor all families grieving the loss of a baby, infant, or child.  Please spread the word, as well, by posting pictures of your flickering candles on your blogs and social media accounts, and let’s set the world aglow with awareness, support, and love.



  1. I am also participating in the wave of light. I wrote about it today if you would like to read it. And I will add the names of your 6 children to the list of those I am remembering and sending love to on Thursday. Great resources on here. Thank you!

    1. purdywords says:

      Thank you for stopping by, although I’m sad that we have a grief shared. I stopped by your site–thank you for inviting me to do so. As I mentioned in my comment to you on your blog, I will add a prayer for your sweet one during my vigil at 7PM tomorrow. Sending love, care and much understanding to you, as well.

      1. Thank you so much, I find a lot of comfort in sharing my grief. All the best to you. I will be thinking of you tomorrow.

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